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Marriage, Registered Partnership or Cohabitation in the Netherlands?

The legal and tax differences between marriage, registered partnership and a cohabitation agreement in the Netherlands, the property regime since 2018, prenups and how to arrange it.

← Living in the NetherlandsFamily, benefits and education5 min readUpdated 5 Oct 2026
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Three ways to formalise a relationship

MarriageRegistered partnershipCohabitation agreement
WhereTown hallTown hallNotary
Fiscal partnerAutomaticallyAutomaticallyPossible if conditions are met
Inheritance as spouseYesYesOnly with a will
Ending itThrough the courtBy agreement, without court if no childrenBy agreement
Recognised abroadWidelyLess widelyRarely
ToolYour own deadlinesEnter your wedding date for the notice, prenup and allowance deadlines.

Who owns what

  1. Before 2018
    Full community of property

    Everything you both owned, before and during the marriage, was shared.

  2. Since 1 Jan 2018
    Limited community of property

    Only what you build up during the marriage is shared; property from before and gifts or inheritances stay your own.

  3. Any time
    Prenuptial agreement

    Made at a notary to agree a different arrangement, for example for entrepreneurs.

Getting married or registered

  1. 1
    Notify the municipality

    At least two weeks and at most a year before the date.

  2. 2
    Choose witnesses

    Two to four adult witnesses.

  3. 3
    Pick a moment

    Many municipalities offer a free or low-cost short ceremony at set times.

  4. 4
    Update your tax position

    You become fiscal partners. See fiscal partnership and moving in together.

Sources

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